One More Salute to Vanity

Civilized Love: Moving Day Edition

Me (at the office): Nick just video chatted with me to get my approval on the position of the couch the movers hauled in. Sometimes I love technology so much I can't even process my feelings.
Whitney: He gets you. That's the most endearing fact you've ever told me about him.
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The future has already arrived. It’s just not evenly distributed yet.
- William Gibson
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[Flash 9 is required to listen to audio.]
Cat Power - I Found a Reason

I’ll admit I discovered this cover before encountering the original Velvet Underground track. The whole thing is barely a cover, anyway. Like most of the tracks on this album, Chan Marshall launches into song intent on building you a seven layer dip comprised of nostalgia, heartache, insomnia, loss, longing, and empathy topped off with a last minute zest of instability. The citrus of manic depression just adds something to the dish. Trust me. I warmed the tortillas myself.

After Chan’s pining and urging, The Velvet Underground’s original becomes the heart warmer on your iPod wedding playlist. Lou Reed is gently winking at your new father in law as you make slow turns around the room with your formerly betrothed.

Cat Power is for coming home to someone on public transportation. A month or two before you have the big talk and one of you decides to leave. It’s raining and the bus smells like a recycled fart but there’s some good tv on that night and he’ll be in a rare happy mood. Nothing is certain but this is the song playing in your ear buds while the frayed cord makes everything sound like vinyl.

Or perhaps this is the background track for when you’re scrawling your name in blood on his walls.

It could be his blood. It could be yours. Perhaps you’ll have quesadillas for dinner. Be sure to add that hint of lime.

Suggested listening: Alanis Morissette’s Your House.

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When I was five years old my concept of a boyfriend was a medley of John Travolta in Grease, Rio (of Jem and the Holograms), and some vague idea of Burt Reynolds.
I can’t stop staring at this image.
(via bindall)

When I was five years old my concept of a boyfriend was a medley of John Travolta in Grease, Rio (of Jem and the Holograms), and some vague idea of Burt Reynolds.

I can’t stop staring at this image.

(via bindall)

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Three years spent away from home, slightly studying but mainly making friends and mistakes, and working out new philosophies of life at 2am with the help of a wine box, is a time-honoured way of preparing young people for life.
- David Mitchell, via Whit explaining our collective experiences to me over Gchat, as usual.
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Few things are cuter than a four year old speaking Dutch. The language barrier becomes a bit frustrating when trying to communicate the difference between a princess-fish hybrid and Ariel herself, apparently. We solved it in chalk.

Few things are cuter than a four year old speaking Dutch. The language barrier becomes a bit frustrating when trying to communicate the difference between a princess-fish hybrid and Ariel herself, apparently. We solved it in chalk.

1 week ago / 1 note /
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More than a little excited about seeing my Ira tonight.

More than a little excited about seeing my Ira tonight.

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Whit’s new apartment is full of surprises at every turn.

Whit’s new apartment is full of surprises at every turn.

2 weeks ago / 3 notes /
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Office margarita party off to a good start.

Office margarita party off to a good start.

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When my husband died, because he was so famous and known for not being a believer, many people would come up to me-it still sometimes happens-and ask me if Carl changed at the end and converted to a belief in an afterlife. They also frequently ask me if I think I will see him again. Carl faced his death with unflagging courage and never sought refuge in illusions. The tragedy was that we knew we would never see each other again. I don’t ever expect to be reunited with Carl. But, the great thing is that when we were together, for nearly twenty years, we lived with a vivid appreciation of how brief and precious life is. We never trivialized the meaning of death by pretending it was anything other than a final parting. Every single moment that we were alive and we were together was miraculous-not miraculous in the sense of inexplicable or supernatural. We knew we were beneficiaries of chance… . That pure chance could be so generous and so kind… . That we could find each other, as Carl wrote so beautifully in Cosmos, you know, in the vastness of space and the immensity of time… . That we could be together for twenty years. That is something which sustains me and it’s much more meaningful… . The way he treated me and the way I treated him, the way we took care of each other and our family, while he lived. That is so much more important than the idea I will see him someday. I don’t think I’ll ever see Carl again. But I saw him. We saw each other. We found each other in the cosmos, and that was wonderful.
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Ann Druyan, talking about her dead husband Carl Sagan.

We found each other in the cosmos, and that was wonderful.

(via sarahb)

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